10 Situations When You Should NOT Shake Hands

Imagine ... you are meeting someone for the first time, and you extend your hand for a handshake, but they pull back, stating that they can't shake your hand due to religious or cultural reasons. This scenario is just one of many instances where a handshake is not appropriate or acceptable. 



Here are ten scenarios in which you should avoid giving a handshake:

1)    When you or the other person is sick or has a communicable illness: It's essential to avoid shaking hands when you or the other person has a contagious illness. In these cases, it's better to use a non-contact greeting such as a nod, a smile, or a wave.


2)    When you're in a professional setting that requires a formal greeting: Some professions, such as healthcare, require you to avoid shaking hands with patients or clients. In these cases, a verbal greeting or a nod may be more appropriate.


3)    When you're in a personal or social setting that requires a different greeting: In some cultures or social situations, a handshake may not be the standard greeting. For example, a bow or a hug may be more appropriate.


4)    When you're in a situation where the other person is uncomfortable with physical contact: If you sense that the other person is uncomfortable with physical contact, it's best to avoid a handshake and use a non-contact greeting instead.


5)    When you are carrying something: If you're carrying something, it may not be practical to shake hands. In these cases, you can use a verbal greeting or a nod.


6)    When you have dirty or sweaty hands: If your hands are dirty or sweaty, it's best to avoid shaking hands. Instead, excuse yourself to wash your hands and then offer a greeting.


7)    When the other person is in a wheelchair or has limited mobility: In these situations, it may not be practical for the person to shake your hand. Instead, you can offer a verbal greeting or a nod.


8)    When you are meeting someone for the second or third time: If you've already met the person before, you may not need to shake hands again. A verbal greeting or a nod may be more appropriate.


9)    When you are meeting someone in a non-formal setting: In casual or informal settings, a handshake may not be necessary. A wave or a nod may be sufficient.


10)                  When the other person has indicated they don't want to shake hands: If the other person has indicated that they don't want to shake hands, it's essential to respect their boundaries and use a non-contact greeting instead.

 


Remember, there are many scenarios where a handshake may not be appropriate or necessary. If you are mindful of these situations, you can avoid awkward or uncomfortable interactions and show respect for other people's cultural, personal, and physical boundaries.



 

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